نهایتا، همه ما باید کار کنیم. مگر اینکه با یک ثروتمند ازدواج کنید یا در بخت آزمایی برنده شوید، واقعیت این است که بسیاری از ما در هفته های کاری 40 تا 50 ساعته به هر طریقی باید کار کنیم. برخی از ما برای کاری که انجام میدهیم دستمزد خوبی دریافت میکنیم، و برخی از ما اینگونه نیست - حتی اگر تلاشی که برای آن انجام میدهیم یکسان باشد. واقعیت همین است. سوال کلیدی این است که از خود بپرسید که چه نوع سبک زندگی را برای خود می خواهید و به دنبال شغلی باشید که به شما امکان می دهد نیازهای خود را برآورده کنید.نکته دیگری که باید در نظر گرفت این واقعیت است که دوست داشتن شغل به هیچ وجه مساوی با موفقیت نیست. مردم دائماً عاشق حرفه خود می شوند و از آنها دور می شوند. چرا؟ زیرا دیر یا زود متوجه میشوند که یک حرفه کار میخواهد و همه ما شخصیتی نداریم که حتی برای چیزهایی که دوست داریم، در برابر چالشهای خواسته شده قدم بگذاریم. برای اینکه واقعاً در هر زمینه ای موفق باشید، به نوع خاصی از شخصیت نیاز دارد. شما نیاز به پشتکار، اعتماد به نفس، خود مدیریتی مؤثر، دانش، مهارت و توانایی ایجاد انگیزه دارید. اگر این ویژگیها را ندارید، احتمالاً بهتر است به دنبال کاری باشید که امنیت شغلی بهتر و دستمزد مناسبتری به شما بدهد. حقیقت این است، اگر شما به طور طبیعی فردی هستید که به راحتی دلسرد میشوید یا در اولین شماره از یک چالش کوتاه میآیید، احتمالاً در هیچ زمینهای که مجبور به خوردن آنچه میکشید، خوب عمل نخواهید کرد.به نظر می رسد بسیاری از مردم این طرز فکر را دارند که "خوب، اگر شغلی را پیدا کنم که دوستش دارم، همه آن ویژگی های شخصیتی به طور طبیعی به وجود می آیند و من هر کاری را که لازم باشد انجام خواهم داد." نه، این صراادامه مطلب

I am in the same boat as you - I enrolled, and now realised I am at the bottom of my class - simply not smart enough.The following is a bitter pill I am swallowing, but like most unpleasant things, it actually does more good than the fake platitudes of “Follow your dreams!” or “You can do it!” or any other meaningless motivational slogans.The blunt answer to your question: Don’t.More specifically, don’t study it as your primary job. Don’t do it as if your income depends on it. Because the truth is you (and I) will never be good enough to be a genius. There are terrifyingly smart people out there - and we can never ever become them. It is a physical change in the brain that makes you a genius, not determination and perseverance etc… You simply caot lea to become a genius even if you tried for several lifetimes.Let that sink in. Take your time. But please read on.What’s more important is a fulfilling life, and the key to that is to find something that you are GOOD at AND something that you ENJOY. Work on that to the best of your stamina. That will give you PURPOSE and therefore happiness.Giving up is a good thing somethings. It’s exceedingly hard for some of us (I’m nearly in tears writing this post) but it’s necessary.In short: if Albert Einstein decided he wanted to be a champion basketball star, even if he lacked the physical attributes, he would never be known. He would have wasted his life trying to be something he wasn’t.I sincerely wish you and everybody reading thisادامه مطلب

I'd also like to add that at the end of the day, we all have to work. Barring marrying rich or wiing the lottery, the reality is, most of us are going to be pulling in 40 - 50 hour work weeks one way or another. Some of us are going to get paid well for what we do, and some of us aren't-- even if the effort we put into it is the same. That's just simply the reality. The key question is to ask yourself what kind of lifestyle is it that you want for yourself and look for a career that will allow you to meet your own requirements.The other thing to consider is the fact that loving your career doesn't at all equate to success. People fall in and out of love with their career all the time. Why? Because sooner or later, they realize that a career takes work and not all of us have the character to step up to the challenges demanded of even the things we love. To be really successful in any kind of field takes a certain kind of character. You need perseverance, confidence, effective self-management, knowledge, skill and the ability to self-motivate. If you don't have those traits, you're probably better off pursuing something that's going to give you better job security and decent pay. The truth is, if you're naturally someone who gets discouraged easily or balks at the first issue of a challenge, you're probably not going to do well in any field where you have to eat what you kill.Alot of people seem to have this mindset where 'well, if I find a career I love, all those character ادامه مطلب

در مقدمه باید بگویم که نقاطِ قوتِ INFJ ها معمولا به خاطرِ دو کارکردِ بالایی آنها و ترکیبِ آن دو است. یعنی سه حالتِ:Ni ، Fe و Ni+Fe .پس در طولِ این مقاله به این سه موضوع توجه می کنیم. امیدوارم این مطالادامه مطلب

حساسوقتی شخصی اصول، باورها و یا نکته های infjها را به چالش می کشد یا مورد انتقاد قرار می دهد، infj ها دچار اصطکاک می شوند، واکنش آنها به این «از بین رفتن هارمونی» و «نیاز به واکنش سریع» می تواند از ناگهان احساساتی شدن تا فوق العاده «اسیدی شدن» باشد.این تیپ شخصیتی در مقابل انتقاد و درگیری و ناگهان مورد سوال قرار گرفتن بسیار آسیب پذیر است و انجام موارد فوق سریعترین راه برای رسیدن به «روی بد» این تیپ شخصیتی است.+ نوشته شده در  شنبه چهاردهم بهمن ۱۳۹۶ساعت 7:43&nbsp توسط محمد  |  ادامه مطلب

They’ve been called a lot of things: The Unico, The Special Snowflake, The Oracle, The Protector, The Physic, The Counselor. But whatever you want to call the rarest 1% of the population, it’s hard to deny that they’re the most elusive type among us. In fact, it’s a fairly safe bet to assume that no one is actually an INFJ but in their own deluded, self-aggrandizing minds. MBTI buffs, particularly of the NF variety, love to self-efface from the vague descriptions online and wave the INFJ flag. That’s precisely why, whenever someone who is unfamiliar with the MBTI tool and cognitive functions takes the test in front of me and gets the INFJ result, I take astute interest in them.Would you like a cookie?Are you actually an INFP?The thing I always want to know first is ‘Are you actually an INFP?’. Why? Because INFPs frequently mistakes themselves for an INFJ. First of all, INFJs and INFPs are really, really similar in appearance and by appearance, I mean they take on the same maerisms, tend to behave the same ways, and reach the same conclusions. They’re also the two most frequently misunderstood NFs (Introverted Feelers). The reason why is a bit complicated and has ادامه مطلب

It’s been requested and since I aim to please, here it is. While it’s exceedingly easy to parody one’s own type, it’s a bit more difficult to make fun of INFJs. In fact, I’d rather not even try. For one, they’re a lot smarter than I am…and they know all my secrets so I have to be gentle here. Secondly, they’re mysterious social chameleons who live among us like agents in the Matrix. They are everyone and they are no one (not the first geek reference and it won’t be the last so just get used to it) so how do you go about pointing out their shameless stereotypes? I’d have a much easier time if this was a post about ESFPs.ESFP: Party Animals. End of post.The GeniusI almost always initially mistake this guy (and I say guy because they’re usually men) for an INTP. In my defense, it’s an easy mistake to make. INFJ includes Introverted Thinking (Ti) in the stack of functions; the function an INFJ uses for Thinking versus Feeling. It also happens to be the Dominant function of INTP. INFJs of this caliber like to pick careers heavily populated by Rationals and other Thinking types: Scientists, Engineers, Networking and IT, Doctors, etc. Some of them even opt for positions of leadershipادامه مطلب

I've been wondering a similar sort of thing.As for ability - nothing beats Ni backed with Ti in conceptual understanding. Precisionwill be lacking, as will anything more procedural/sequenced (experiments), but there is mostcertainly great potential in certain, perhaps more abstract, areas.What I think will be much harder is staying motivated. Basically, to keep motivation with anyexteal activity, Fe is going to need to be utilised, and since science is quite T dominated,it's going to be hard to get this stimulation. I think what is needed is 1: a long term F-basedgoal to keep you driving towards something, as well as 2: constant social stimulation to keepyou on track.For 1. you'll probably find what you're looking for via prospects for social change as a result ofyour developed understanding. For 2. you could luck out and find a nice social position in thescientific community, so that you're not just a scientist doing work with other scientists, you'rea person doing work with other people. Alteatively, your source of motivation may be foundthrough teaching (tutoring perhaps) and your mind will be set on the subject because you'remind will naturally be set on developing the undادامه مطلب

ISFJs and INFJs access Si (introverted sensing) or Ni (introverted intuition) before Fe – so these processes are going to greatly influence how they use extraverted feeling, because it all is filtered through Si or Ni first. One thing that can be confusing about ISFJs and INFJs is that because of their auxiliary Fe they can often be mistaken for extroverts. They love to make people feel at ease aادامه مطلب

* آی ان اف جی ِ رشد نکرده، دانه ها و بذر های بزرگی و تاریکی و روشنی هستند که در حال رشد در جهان هستند،این عزیزان یا هنوز نمی دانند که آی ان اف جی هستند یا به تازگی از طریقی متوجه شده اند.این مرحله مرحله ای است پر از گیجی، آشفتگی، عشق ، نفرت، غم، شادی، مستی، تازگی، عدم تعادل و ....گونه ای هستند که فادامه مطلب

فقدان آگاهی از طبیعت خود باعث میشود آینفجی نابالغ ما فکر کند که دارای اختلال شخصیت است و افسردگی دارد،دیگر آینفجی ها طبیعت خود را پنهان می کنند تا بتوانند در جامعه قرار بگیرندچه کسی افسرده نمی شود وقتی گردباد افکار و عواطف و احساسات او را احاطه کرده اند،تعدادی از آنها به سمت موفقیت در جامعه و شغل خادامه مطلب

برای آنها که به تازگی متوجه شده اند که آینفجی هستند ممکن است این آگاهی مانند یک کشف باشد برای آنها. ممکن است اسیر و شیدای این توصیفات شوند. ممکن است آن لحظه لحظه ای غرور آمیز باشد که فهمیده اند که آنها در جامعه کمیاب ترین می باشد.مدتی بعد متوجه می شوند که باید در این دنیای «مادی» زندگی کنند.باید بهادامه مطلب